Monday, March 31, 2008

知足常乐


阿鱼刚刚一个朋友打来向我借钱，乍问之下，才知道友人的家已经3个月没有还贷款了~
怪的不该是阿鱼的友人，应该是他的父母，这么大个人就是这么没有分寸~
每天direct sale direct sale,可是做到半路又喊停，嫌什么没有return...
hello, 做direct sale 你真的以为3个月就收入丰厚咩？
孩子给的零用钱敢敢乱用，孩子给的供屋钱竟然给它用清光~
够力~
每天想发达，要发达也不是一朝一夕的事啦~这么大个人就是不能实际点的~
要这么快发达，去捞偏啦，又不敢，还要多多声~
见到友人的父母这样，友人又每次和我诉苦， 阿鱼有时真的恨不得已去教训一下那些想跑捷径的人~
40几岁人又不务正业，只会想发达~
阿鱼不是在鄙视做direct sale 的人，只是阿鱼觉得direct sale 不应该是full time...

但是毕竟是人家的家事，身为外人也不便多嘴~ 但是有时真的很心疼友人的孝心，努力工作赚钱拿钱回家，结果竟然给自己的家人淋冷水。。。那份孝心毕竟不是每个孩子都能做到，老人家不去珍惜之余，还嫌少~阿鱼看在眼里，真的很心疼这么乖的孩子怎么回面对这种问题~

庆幸阿鱼的爸妈不是那种脾性，至少我们家爸爸妈妈不会嫌东嫌西，我们姐妹俩给多少零用钱，他们都不会怎样嫌。反正家里就是有饭吃饭，有粥吃粥~ 知足常乐是阿鱼家的口头禅~ 就算阿鱼弟弟是个唐氏儿，家里也不会觉得怎样~ 毕竟想起，阿鱼家还真的比起友人家来得温暖几百倍~

知足常乐这句成语真的很有用~ 所谓比上不足，比下有余~ 我真的不明白，为什么就是存在着那些不实际的人，成天只会想发达，又不实际行动~





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55 comments:

  1. 肯尼卡卡 kennycarmenMarch 31, 2008 at 2:00 AM

    对，知足常乐。。珍惜眼前所有~

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  2. 肯尼卡卡 kennycarmenMarch 31, 2008 at 2:03 AM

    替你朋友辛苦，可是那些不争气的偏偏是她的父母。。。。。

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  3. Ryan TanMarch 31, 2008 at 2:04 AM

    anyway,,, 钱还是别借吧...
    有太多不好的经验了..

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  4. Albert MahMarch 31, 2008 at 2:04 AM

    Can help then help lor~~ Contentment in life is not appreciate by most pple =)

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  5. 阿魚 giammMarch 31, 2008 at 2:09 AM

    对，珍惜眼前所有~

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  6. 阿魚 giammMarch 31, 2008 at 2:09 AM

    就是罗~ 无能为力~

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  7. 阿魚 giammMarch 31, 2008 at 2:10 AM

    没有借了~

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  8. 阿魚 giammMarch 31, 2008 at 2:11 AM

    help wat la... i told my fren, i can trust u, but i cant trust ur parents... i dun wan our friendship will blew with this ~

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  9. Ryan TanMarch 31, 2008 at 2:13 AM

    酱就乖了~

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  10. 阿魚 giammMarch 31, 2008 at 2:15 AM

    不过讲真的，借出去的钱真的很难收回~ 反而到最后好像我们是欠债的人~

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  11. Albert MahMarch 31, 2008 at 2:16 AM

    I mean u can buy yr friends meals and other necessity for her and her siblings lor.. let the two adults worry for themselves lor... i also have similar encounter like you, but my ex-gf just lend the $$ which I cant stop her. coz she need to buy food and foot the bills for electricity and water. of course, provided if you are ok to help her lor..

    Sometimes, just take it as a form of charity work lor...=)

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  12. 阿魚 giammMarch 31, 2008 at 2:21 AM

    treat my fren makan or wat ok, but who knows if i lend money or wat, my fren's parents will spot the money anot, i tell u, they used to take my fren's money when my fren fall asleep ler.... till now, my fren off work oso dun dare to go home.. haih...

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  13. 白金恋人（假的） Chung YeekMarch 31, 2008 at 2:22 AM

    hai.......

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  14. Ryan TanMarch 31, 2008 at 2:23 AM

    我上回就是心软借了给一个朋友，
    从此在下变成了讨债的...!
    过了很长的一段时间，钱是要回来了...
    不过朋友却没了... 唉~

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  15. 阿魚 giammMarch 31, 2008 at 2:29 AM

    我也有这样的经历~ 现在就好像我欠钱酱，追钱难过借钱~

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  16. 阿 钝March 31, 2008 at 2:33 AM

    酱废的父母哦~~~

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  17. 阿魚 giammMarch 31, 2008 at 2:38 AM

    一种米养百种人~

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  18. Ryan TanMarch 31, 2008 at 2:44 AM

    learn from the lession~

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  19. 阿魚 giammMarch 31, 2008 at 2:54 AM

    叶斯~

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  20. Im NotShyMarch 31, 2008 at 2:57 AM

    我也不赞成借钱

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  21. 阿魚 giammMarch 31, 2008 at 3:05 AM

    你的经历应该比我更多~

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  22. 打鼓 お!March 31, 2008 at 3:15 AM

    哈哈。。。我的口头禅。。。恭喜发财~

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  23. 阿魚 giammMarch 31, 2008 at 3:17 AM

    我还处处处~哈哈哈哈哈

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  24. 打鼓 お!March 31, 2008 at 3:19 AM

    那个时侏罗纪公园的通关密码

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  25. 阿魚 giammMarch 31, 2008 at 3:28 AM

    是咩？我还以为阿里巴巴的~

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  26. Albert MahMarch 31, 2008 at 3:29 AM

    ya lah~~ dun lend $$, just buy things for her will be better if she really need. Ask your friend to put her $$ and her bank book with you lor.. if she is willing to trust you with that... =)

    Your friend parents are quite bad in the sense they took her $$ that way lor.. but nothing she can do when she is sleeping rite? Or another way is only bring home some food and keep a empty purse ...hopefully it will help her to stop been take advantage lor..poor gal..=(

    Use your fish fin to smack her parents, ask them to wake up their ideas!!...keke

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  27. 黑人蓝保 老鼠March 31, 2008 at 4:21 AM

    呵呵....梅姐讲过,钱借出去的时候,就会少了个朋友....

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  28. Shirley ChooMarch 31, 2008 at 4:31 AM

    借钱给人就要预左收唔返 (不过也要睇对方的人品) 。。。俗语有话，借出去的钱。。就预左收唔返。一系就唔好借。。。朋友之间。。。一讲到钱就伤感情了。




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  29. Erin FooMarch 31, 2008 at 6:31 AM

    不要借啦~~朋友之间不要有钱财阻碍比较好~~

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  30. Fei Cheng YapMarch 31, 2008 at 6:32 AM

    要赚很多钱不是一朝一夕的,
    还是脚踏实地比较好~ ^^

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  31. 小 航March 31, 2008 at 6:43 AM

    可怜的小朋友．．．

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  32. 魔鬼 飛飛March 31, 2008 at 7:39 AM

    無奈~

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  33. 阿魚 giammMarch 31, 2008 at 7:49 AM

    hahahahaha, my fish fin very expensive one... worthless to smack ppl like them.... but sometime i feel so helpless to my fren lo... nothing i can help even i wish to help...

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  34. 阿魚 giammMarch 31, 2008 at 7:55 AM

    谁是梅姐？

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  35. 阿魚 giammMarch 31, 2008 at 7:55 AM

    系罗~

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  36. 阿魚 giammMarch 31, 2008 at 7:56 AM

    所以我也没有借~费事多时多多事~

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  37. 阿魚 giammMarch 31, 2008 at 7:57 AM

    所以我也没有借~费事多时多多事~

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  38. 阿魚 giammMarch 31, 2008 at 7:57 AM

    举脚赞成~哈哈哈

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  39. 阿魚 giammMarch 31, 2008 at 7:58 AM

    爷爷晚上好~

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  40. 阿魚 giammMarch 31, 2008 at 7:58 AM

    感叹~唉~

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  41. Erin FooMarch 31, 2008 at 8:25 AM

    对咯。。不要借是对的～～
    朋友归朋友。。

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  42. toto 。March 31, 2008 at 8:37 AM

    烦~

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  43. 阿魚 giammMarch 31, 2008 at 8:44 AM

    啦啦啦啦啦啦啦，　我有点饿～

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  44. toto 。March 31, 2008 at 8:47 AM

    拿~！ 给虫你~

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  45. poŖků oTäkũ ©March 31, 2008 at 8:57 AM

    bluu bluu bluu~~

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  46. Albert MahMarch 31, 2008 at 11:01 AM

    给你吃一张多多，希望你的身体会出真字。。哈哈哈哈。。。罗汉鱼是这样来的吧。。。哈哈。。

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  47. Albert MahMarch 31, 2008 at 11:03 AM

    哈哈哈哈~~对啦，打也没用，毕竟是她的家事。。。。你不用觉得无助，你在她身边默默支持她，给她一个依赖的肩膀，已经算是很够朋友咯。。。=）

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  48. Fun CheongMarch 31, 2008 at 8:40 PM

    家家有本難念的經 >_< ~~~

    說的好。。。你好像比較會想了。。沒有醬灰了 : P ~~ hahaha

    好事來的 ^_^ ~~

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  49. 黑人蓝保 老鼠March 31, 2008 at 9:40 PM

    阿猪小周董的偶像的好朋友...两人已经上天堂了....

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  50. poŖků oTäkũ ©March 31, 2008 at 9:52 PM

    关系很像很复杂hor
    阿猪小周董的偶像的好朋友

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  51. 黑人蓝保 老鼠March 31, 2008 at 10:01 PM

    一点点咯...哈哈哈哈哈

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  52. poŖků oTäkũ ©March 31, 2008 at 10:04 PM

    很多点loooo
    那么远

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  53. 阿魚 giammMarch 31, 2008 at 11:13 PM

    我还这边处处处~bloo bloo bloo ~

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  54. 阿魚 giammMarch 31, 2008 at 11:14 PM

    谢谢~

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  55. poŖků oTäkũ ©April 1, 2008 at 12:25 AM

    bloo bloo bloo
    bluu bluu bluu
    puu puu puu

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